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"Mother, we all hard sick unto death"

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Not know as the rest, and I hard is sick. Disease is called prokrastinatsiya, i.e. have pornoe nenachinanie affairs that have long it is time to end.

Forth hence:

Gonna drag-pay I this the text here, and the, as it turns out, "men something not know".
With haircut from hence

"You know, that such prokrastinatsiya? This's persistent nenachinanie affairs that have long it is time to end.
And because I prokrastinator P.Gudauskas and Honoured, I have have accumulated and methods struggle with this resemble.

1. Very often until consciousness it comes only the general nekhotenie to do deal, the total nekomfortnost and soul-not-lezhnost to this trial. However if give itself 10 “Golden calm sittingin secret place and zaglyadyvaniya in the crux of the nekhoteniya, then it turns out. That much of affairs for us's neutral or even pleasant,. And are stalling all on any something details, nuanced one, minutia.

Sometimes enough simply recognize this thing. Sometimes recognize and plodding until closest an outlet. This a minor's a traffic jam (who pretending to be all persoana, affair) easily smetaetsya.

2. To do deal not linearly, and setchato. Pro this I already wrote. School instilled in us misconception, that to do need to all consistently and linearly. But this well only for schools, where not is supposed to unknowns things. Teacher always knows path, which need otmarshirovat, and knowledge usechennnye for this path, so pupil can be to do linearly. Life, however not consists of separately selected knowledge and you play with known responses. She as something sassy razvetlena - here know, here not know, here fish when carrying the, and here at all no one never knew, that to do.

Should to do those things that already are well known, understood, and for whom all there is. This knot in grid, the other, the third in side from them. Than more are closed those seats, with whom all clear, those clearer become things and tasks, which, allow from themselves its uncertainty, clear in which direction their dig and as hang with already signed.

3. And hence principle nezabvennoy "in late-all loving themselves housewives" - shut his mouth to his perfektsionizmu, need not wait ideal conditions and solemn fanfare of, take timer and podelayte something modicum five minutes. Known and assemble in the upcoming and otkladyvaemom deeds. Search pack paper and a good the handle. Add together a drink the right books. Bring in one seat the right example, needle and schemes.

You same still not began to much graver labor? You only bring the handle. And tomorrow add together the right documents in daddy on mouse. From 15 minutes something do about it in expense future project still no one never was dying. This version of and to cling.

4. Pending things possess ability to ??? reflected in drive souls. Every mental Remembrance and otgonyanie this thought adds trial non-existent complexity and of gravity. All saw, that things, made with expulsion, not in respect time, at all not concerned osoznatsya as weight on psyche.

This thought in me lives cliche - all easier, than it seems.Lagaan I had itself a reminder. And went seek something heaviest - the whether a stupid ring from acrylic glass, then whether bracelet - something, that constantly meshalos would and from this osoznavalos - and on him hot-wire phrase: All much easier, than it seems. Bracelet such I has bought (ha-ha) - chain of, heavy, to drive this artsy and imaginable cheap stuff, (in sense more taste and quality). But served he task is famously. At all, mantrovost in such a fact very is important. Army phrase - and let itself crops up.

5. Priyatnost and trouble affairs- delicate and very subjective internal decay. So very well affairs unfolding on two list of - pleasant and nasty. If you was raised as me, quite possibly affairs from the list of pleasant not less important and srochny, however paradoxical way outlet their retards a sense of, that this is not present deal, and present the, that hate :))

Have work with two these resulting there are several options.

Take immediately derive and important deal - with him already all clear. And for time carry, worryingly as something recall - can its death die on our carpet from old age, can will cease be frustrating, and can to other leaves.

Take and tinker over frustrating, tossed under hand list pleasant. All those same 15 minutes-which-no one -esche- not killed - and here same themselves reward the large a piece of pleasant affairs. On freedom with clean own consciences.

Or offload worryingly on other. Not need to worry for them. Have them their lists and quite possibly, your a deal passes have them on situation - at all nothing not worth. This may be and direct exchange affairs on deal. And can be and simply (demon) self-serving aid - when you thinker aloud proved posluschat your tasks and idiosinkrazii - and you say - about! Yes let we you this jokingly offering will do.

6. If same already began and has bought into, need limit itself time. On expiration 15 minutes ask themselves negligently: Ah that, will continue still? - and very itself zakivat with enthusiasm: Javadxan-aha. And very itself rezreshit: Ah okay perishing, still 15 minutes.
“it’s on time stop. Here is Hemingway wrote very favourite I and utterly to my thought. When you write, it is important not create until the end of their forces and knowledge about how, that will further. Today need to unkind to end on such a place, to you knew, that tomorrow write and continuation of history.

Otherwise tomorrow I always find myself again in positions Number zero - DOCG level there, not know where, write the, not know that. An ideal the starting gathering spaces that offer universal for prokrastinatsii.

7. Still there is method broad Front. When a short list delayed affairs and included aktivne timer. And without any sign dawdling or excuses, every 15-20-30 minutes're crossing to the next trial and something on him one takes. 15-minute winning strategy I have beloved intervals, they such short, that impossible razmusolitsya, account for quickly devise, that same there can be done, and in preferential tseytnota regulation to do as times the, that is in junctions nets and understandable immediately. This method (plus prophesy stupid of bracelets) leads, that affairs something many in these 15 minutes and fade within. And the rest are launched, as failure her propeller - and already not you'll jump off it with plane :)

8. And there is contrary - method akyn. That see, about how sing. But long.
Are starting with any center space - and the first same deal, about which something was reminded, are starting to do consistently - and until the end of. Akynya policy requires relative freedom from's suffocating deadlines other affairs. On such stepnoe singing can be point to a separate time in bottom. But already sing and sing every day in this time all the same song, until she not dopoetsya until words "and many-many joy to the kids, too has brought." Method akyn allows start and to end affairs, which otherwise there is no room in logical ezhednevnosti. "

From themselves.
More just these ways suited to those Affairs, which in principle to do want, but either until is unknown, as to them cope with the, either fulsome what something local obstacle, either such affairs in parallel loaded in head too a large number of. Because on large something ultimately quite not necessarily all affairs always reproduces until the end of only because, that they once already were started (or over mental training), from some cheaper eliminate and free space in anybody for something another, more summery and attractive. Not to mention, that if constantly account for artificially "podkruchivat propeller", then arises question, "and that the at all I am and indeed whether me this need to?."

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Oops, Lena, what an important the text! Me seems this problem present absolutely have all.

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Татьяна wrote:

“I don’t seems this problem present absolutely have all.

Here is and me so seems :) Who as struggles with this resemble?

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Татьяна wrote:

zhyttja, Lena, what an important the text! Me seems this problem present absolutely have all.

Have all, then have all, but I think astrologers at all not easily.
Heard, that have exploring the astrology diminished expression of marsovskikh qualities.

Радуга wrote:

Who as struggles with this resemble?

Me to start long otkladyvaemoe deal, need on him look, mentally to imagine all details, small beer, or same to imagine outcome entirely. If deal serious (residential questions) desirable simply relax, to meditate minutes 30. Prefer do increasingly immediately, today, camping on K. On tomorrow interest already deaf.
And at all Hua several affairs pick a, purely intuitively, then to what lies soul.
Or same'm elektsii, that to do now preferable to. :disappointed:

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Николай wrote:

“I don’t to start long otkladyvaemoe deal, need on him look, mentally to imagine all details, small beer, or same to imagine outcome entirely

I, too, so do)) But at all account for themselves kicking ass tailor.

Николай wrote:

Wu all, then have all, but I think astrologers at all not easily. Heard, that have exploring the astrology diminished expression of marsovskikh qualities.

Yes? Interestingly. :)
In a whole me seems, that such a disease there is outcome any something internal conflicts. Usually on the, to maintain domestic conflict need a any part of energy and here is precisely from-for what she spent alone, and are formed "the congestion." And then, our generation with Saturn in Ovne, in this sense not be easy, time is used cyclical, in sense the downturn, then rise, it is difficult use resources evenly. Remember in this ties Dr. Sciences with Saturn in an :cool:

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In my opinion, given several ways dawdling and engineering Manipury, but in full isolation from goals, sense and other things, without what not goes nor it is one thing.

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Flax, but as have you with this theme? You easily vklyuchaeshsya in work? I have, for example, extremely a long process vrabatyvaemosti. I as locomotive: Long'm wobbling and long get out from process.

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Радуга wrote:

Wu me, for example, extremely a long process vrabatyvaemosti. I as locomotive: Long'm wobbling and long get out from process.

And I, too,. This same in having of fixed signs. And if before I suffered on this about, then in this moment (greater thank you my the Installation reyki wife Tatyana Koptsevoy) I accept this like fine in having my personality. I watch process eventual in deal, vyzrevayu internally and await the moment. Incidentally, me in this helped still game "student", in which I long been born (this such blue print phase of the game), but then immediately found myself in Miracle! :)

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Lud_mila wrote:

By the way, me in this helped still game "student", in which I long been born (this such blue print phase of the game), but then immediately found myself in Miracle!

This you on reyki play?

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Радуга wrote:

This is you on reyki play?

Not quite. Tanya has psikhologich. Education. This is one of methods work with problems, on that unconscious on level. Here is here she pro this writes The student.
I 2 times played. The first was at all Get a - the problem has moved as if and not was its. Incidentally, in than with theme this pereklikalas. The second game was not so rezultativna, camping on K. Question very a complex place itself. Here still plough and plough.

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Lud_mila wrote:

This is one of methods work with problems, on that unconscious on level.

At all vested practice very are efficient, this yes. When boil in own juice, much withdraws from field attention. I remember, on rasstanovkakh on Khellengeru me have become decide such bright experiences and thought.

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Радуга wrote:

In a whole me seems, that such a disease there is outcome any something internal conflicts. Usually on the, to maintain domestic conflict need a any part of energy and here is precisely from-for what she spent alone, and are formed "the congestion"

There is of course and internal conflicts, and external difficulties, for expression of own activity.
Can whom it will be interesting: In sinastriyakh on my Mars, Saturn wife. Understandable that expression of personal activity more difficult. In what the least I'm using this in their tselyakh- say now lead the not want on home; 'm showing respect activity. Reaction wife's-parents- not in a timely, not effectively, need not. Oppression oschuschaemyy quite strongly is declining, when am strictly male affairs for homes, or a bad man. I.e., amplifying own Marsovskuyu activity, 'm reducing impact its Saturn. :mad: :tomato:

And here is how reveal internal conflicts, can who will recommend what technology?
Have us after all so much advanced astro- psychologists have discovered. :flag:

Last edited by Николай (Sep 14 2010 17:01:29)

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Николай wrote:

in sinastriyakh on my Mars, Saturn wife.

Need to same! Have my husband, too, compound Mars and Saturn, but on this all my Saturn. Interestingly was would compare our options. :glasses:

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Lud_mila wrote:

We same! Have my husband, too, compound Mars and Saturn, but on this all my Saturn. Interestingly was would compare our options.

Of them-- the I remember went you Ludmila, talked that "influencing family" account for pull largely the most, you same're making omissions from your his activity :glasses: :sceptic:, (am asking forgiveness) or this is felt as the on Different with his hand?

So have him compound Mars and Saturn? I have Mars in broad opposition to Saturnu- the Orb. 8.1 gr.

Last edited by Николай (Sep 14 2010 19:28:54)

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Николай wrote:

В какой то мере я использую это в своих целях- скажем сейчас что- то не хочется  по дому;  проявляю активность.  Реакция жены-   не своевременно, не эффективно, не нужно

Экий вы креативный, Николай :)

Николай wrote:

А вот как выявить внутренние конфликты, может кто посоветует какие техники?

Будет время, выложу в ЖЖ методику по тем же субличностям. Но вообще-то, конечно, такими вещами лучше заниматься вместе с психологом. Хотя бы потому, что у любого человека срабатывает сопротивление. Я вот тоже пару дней назад обнаружила у себя интересную субличность и не знаю что с ней делать (хотя с методикой знакома :)). Вернее, она сама обнаружилась, заполонила собой все внутреннее пространство...вот я и пытаюсь понять что дальше делать. А вообще что такое внутренний конфликт? Это когда чего-то хочется, но не можется. Деньги, отношения, определенный образ жизни да та же самоорганизация, с чего и началась эта тема и т.д. Приведу в пример свой внутренний конфликт для наглядности. Есть желание больше зарабатывать. Так? Это с одной стороны. А что с другой? А с другой убеждение, что деньги можно зарабатывать только тяжелым трудом. Вот я их тяжело и зарабатываю в состоянии глубокой неудовлетворенности :) Вот это пример внутреннего конфликта. Дальше надо корни искать: откуда взялось, почему прижилось, какими убеждениями подпитывается и т.д.

Николай wrote:

в синастриях на моем Марсе, Сатурн жены.

Это еще и долгоиграющие отношения.

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Радуга wrote:

This is still and EPs relations.

Certify their 20-year-old experience family life. :)

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Incidentally, Nikolai, you, it seems, me any program's been moved :) Today wrote article and instead phrase "My house - my fortress" made opisku "My house - my Cup" :) :cool:

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Радуга wrote:

By the way, Nikolai, you, it seems, me any program's been moved Today wrote article and instead phrase "My house - my fortress" made opisku "My house - my Cup"

So we with you, Lena- Rainbow are tied by even time birth. Sun have us in one and same throes, albeit in opposition. And all planetary impact on your personality, (personality the), so or otherwise affect and my. Incidentally, I so waited your monthly the review, when the moon changes, in 15 gr. Of the Virgin of the, - it the perhaps and jog our contacts. :jumping:

And about impact, you transformiruete me immeasurably more and I so. " Many thankful! ".
To example now affirmatsiyami have to modify my their foreign environment. The world is changing, with actively, think and not only in my vision. Try to put work and with its the body, here of course strongly launched, but already himself process me like. :cool:

Not know whom as, but Now for me sharing on Forum gives permanent drive, themes, which get, in during days previews unreadable in anybody, with different sides, in general goes constant internal work, although himself personally unique almost not am. :whistle:

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Николай wrote:

So we with you, Lena- Rainbow are tied by even time birth. Sun have us in one and same throes, albeit in opposition. And all planetary impact on your personality, (personality the), so or otherwise affect and my.

And-and-and-and, "Semyon Semenych!" (With) :)

Николай wrote:

By the way, I so waited your monthly the review, when the moon changes, in 15 gr. Virgin of, - it the perhaps and jog our contacts.

My God, ah modicum someone observed :) Frankly, I in another swamped and (with one hand). With other hand, vygode not it looked interesting. Aspects of it not makes, blood regardless-retro-Mercury. Ah that write something was? :)

Николай wrote:

A about impact, you transformiruete me immeasurably more

Oops, ah well :jumping:

Николай wrote:

By example now affirmatsiyami have to modify my their foreign environment. The world is changing, with actively, think and not only in my vision. Try to put work and with its the body, here of course strongly launched, but already himself process me like. Not know whom as, but Now for me communication on Forum gives permanent drive, themes, which get, in during days previews unreadable in anybody, with different sides, in general goes constant internal work, although himself personally unique almost not am.

Perfectly! I have there is such assumption (judging by from everything activity 12 th homes, current), that you now need as would recruit the impression, but not try to their actively analyze. She was putting Bart sleep, can be mentally to narrate something type: Subconscious, I acknowledge you on demonstrate, here is this subject. And watch what thought and feelings will decide in subsequent days. Can be, Slumbers will decide making. We burden, too, a compelling thing, body at all well shows blocks, mounting clips and anything. Especially this well one senses in group therapy in work with partner.

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Радуга wrote:

Lozhas sleep, can be mentally to narrate something type: Subconscious, I acknowledge you on demonstrate, here is this subject. And watch what thought and feelings will decide in subsequent days. Can be, Slumbers will decide making.

Well, bluntly today and'm. :dontcare:

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