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Domestic child. Many whether about him know?

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What the road leads to itself?
Founders Rome Romulus and Rem, rebuffed by their evil uncle of in the rapid water Tiber; is Hebrew the Prophet Moses, miraculously saved by daughter Egyptian downsize; povelitel Olympic gods Zeus, barely not the swallowed in infancy own father Kronos Most cultural traditions bear in itself myths, lore and magic stories, povestvuyuschie effeminate, which managed avoid dangers and to go through many tests, above than realize themselves and turn into heroes. These characters perfectly illustrate concept of, Hermes huge popularity in modern psychology: In every of us lives child, which we were once and which prevents themselves show our todays nevertheless self. Recognize and free this child means recognize and disclose our domestic the essence of, the spontaneity and creative potential.
Free their future
Still in 40s past century the largest Swiss psychologist Karl Gustav services (Sarl Gustav Jung) drew attention on the, that in various mythological systems Americans divine child often accorded role savior of. Later services told about its own means unusual experience an acquaintance with child within themselves, which decimation on him huge influence. Trying to restore in memory their kidsgame, he irresistible, that Remembrance this withdrawn by the in his psyche unusual thrill and warmer. Javadxan, said I himself itself, all this still very much alive in me. Baby within me not died and is full creative energy, which so lack me. But as same me find to him path? To me, adult human, seemed impossible to return to itself odinnadtsatiletnemu. But another path not was, and should I was find the journey to his childhood with his childrens fun. This was turning moment in my fate .
Meeting with domestic child allowed Jung create theory of archetypes, according to which collective unconsciousness consists of structural elements-symbols, general the most fundamental relationship in society, precisely they, according to by, and underlie all mental processes and away, reasons and sense which not always are clear us themselves. In this system an archetype child embodies living forces, path and opportunities, inaccessible for intellectual insight, and expresses most a strong drive human pursuit both. As writes services, child this potential future .
Concept of domestic child took on weaponry psychologists immediately several trends. Despite on numerous divergences between scientists different psychological schools, says existential the therapist Svetlana Krivtsova, all they authoritative this the notion of as a synonym for emotional openness world, triggering spontaneous Lukoil and ability to rejoice at. In existential analysis this concept of fits ability to be close very itself.
Among scientific concepts, in one way or another least vobravshikh in themselves views about domestic child, the most known theory tranzaktnogo analysis, created by in 60s years past century American the psychotherapist IFLA council Lennard Berne (Eric Berne). According to to Vernoux, in our domestic world there are three fortune I : This Roditel, establishing rules, adult Adult, which analyzes information and permits problems, and worker, reactive on the world emotionally and directly. According to Waldhorn -estate, in many respects worker one of the most valuable elements of personality, so as contributes in life human the, that real child contributes in family life: Joy, creativity and charm of .
In 80s years American psychologist John 19th (Jonn Paxton Bradshaw) made the next step in understanding genuine relations with our dityachim I. In particular, he believed, that all we scratch children, soslannymi in adult life. 19th developed psychotherapy method communication with domestic child, are this the notion of new bones of. He believed, that domestic (as and any) child is growing and evolves, passing under this those same stage identity development: Our long infancy, early childhood, a preschool age and so on. In some point we stop his feel, leave his, forget about him, prejudicing him thereby a deep trauma. 19th called who, abandoned by domestic child a wounded built. From moreover, on what stage of development domestic child we tore with him the link, depends, which problems we will to experience in our adult life. Child pornography 19th is, to understand, in what precisely moment we turned their backs from own child I , to return to him and anew to forge contact.
Roughly in the same time to concept of domestic child turned and American my therapists aren Gal and Sidra Stone (Gal and Sidra Stone), considering, that worker home to in our domestic world along with multiple other sublichnostey (Hypostasis (religion)): A carreerist, tyrant, as Protector, next idol. On from ideas Italian psychoanalyst, the founder of psikhosinteza Roberto Assadzhioli (Roberto Assagioli), polagavshego, that these sublichnosti incite internal conflicts and prevent have the of our genuine I , Gal and Sidra Stone have developed method domestic dialogue , goal which prevent heartfelt discomfort through establishing contact with each of sublichnostey in separately and in primarily with our domestic child.
Conversation with a
Despite different vision seats domestic child in life adult, psychologists agree in one: Communication with him necessary. For this very it is important learn to with him to speak. Often we treat to process dialogue with ourselves ironic, but in reality such talk our pit need. Even becoming adult, each of us needs in have trumped, says Svetlana Krivtsova. [it is important remember, that alongside every of us there is always a dedicated and was-people this we themselves. Rarely from whom was an ideal childhood without conflicts, experiences of imagination and commitment injuries. So the need restore the link with its domestic child with goal embolden his, soothe, understand there is ????? of us. Conversation with its dityachim I not the only form of domestic dialogue, however, perhaps, one of the most important. And begin communication with a is worth precisely with it.

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E.E. Bern. People, which play in game. A modern did the Men of Letters, 2006.
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Trying to to talk to the with its domestic child, try not pretending them, but feel his. This will help several exercises, which offers existential psychologist Svetlana Krivtsova:

1. learn AS II THE feels
To establish with him contact, put both their fingertips on area heat ambiance as or on the assistant on level breast. Close your eyes. Ask themselves: That I feel? What would me like? Listen for itself.

2. talk Since of BAT
Talk with its domestic child or write him letter. Tell him about itself with the moment, as you have become mature, share doubts and findings. Initially similar rubber can bit confusing: Perhaps, this a consequence moreover, that you difficult to accept its domestic child.

3. Piazza ITS
If you feel, that you long as if something lack, Piazza themselves its domestic child. You lost much time, throughout the long years not addressing itself. You spent mass of forces on any important affairs, you depleted, and man in such a able becomes very fragile. Tell itself several as sympathy words, and you will, as are returning living forces. Learn to look more be itself mother the, which understands, spare efforts and can give warmly (to then, over time, learn to be itself spoken native father, i.e. fair judge).

4. just draw of that right EMOTlONAL LlFE
If of emotions too many, simply just draw their. And then ask its domestic child draw it moreover adult, which you have become. You can ask his draw it the, that causes have him anger, pride, happiness or sadness.

5. think different DETSKIE grievances
Take leaf paper, write in one column the, than you pride, and in another list their childhood scores. Very often the, than we proud of it, grows out of what we nedopoluchili in childhood. Forever by chasing for new achievements, we often not can stop, and it is likely, that to interminable pursuit of all new fulfillment us encourages the very resentful domestic child , which you not so long has received attention.

On materials magazine a different philosophy. (# 11 - 2006)


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