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Understanding of people - this is largely task uyasneniya ties between ??? and current the deeds, between expressive at all behavior and internal properties, between cause of and consequence of. For moreover, to well deal in humans, above all is necessary maturity. This implies not only achieving a certain age, but and the rich stockpile of experience interaction with human nature in the most diverse and the tangled its manifestations. Consider eight personality qualities, needed, to well deal in humans

Influence sets, stereotypes, experience leads to subjective distortion way of I and other people. Desires, assumptions, casualty ways perception can programming surveillance, focusing attention on limited fragments behavior rights.

Ability to understand Valtsplekitooted OU every human call Ideographic writing systems sensitivnostyu. Propulsion W. Allport, Gordon Willard described eight personality qualities, needed, to well deal in humans:

1. Experience(Experience). For moreover, to well deal in humans, above all is necessary maturity. This implies not only achieving a certain age (30 years or so), but and the rich stockpile of experience interaction with human nature in the most diverse and the tangled its manifestations. Formative years sees people in a narrow term his limited experience, and when young people make judge those, whose life significantly different from their own, they often are treated to immature and nesoobraznym cliche, like: an old man stock from life , a normal guy or a weirdo.

Have experienced human for everyone from countless human outpouring there are already rich appertseptivnaya chain carefully tested interpretations. Even if associations and judgments come from are not the only mental processes, new understand other people, even if that perhaps we need to give tribute and theories intuitive understanding of, then and for intuitive understanding of are needed sturdy experienced founding.

2. Similarity(Western). This the requirement, to man, which tries to judge about the people, on its nature was look like on moreover human, which he wants to understand. Experimental research have shown, that those who more precisely evaluate any line in another man, themselves in high extent possess this feature of. But correlation here not absolute, and story is not so simply: Mobility imagination one property evaluations can prove worth, than huge reserves network usage experience another.

Should discern, that similarity this a special case experience. Than more the other man look like on me, those greater experience communication with him I mean. Precisely for this reason members one and the same national, religious or professional groups usually more precisely other Try each about one another.

3. Intelligence(Intelligence). Experimental research again and again confirm the fact, that there is some the link between high intelligence and ability to accurately judge other humans. Vernon found, that the high intelligence especially't for those who accurately assesses themselves and unfamiliar people, but if appraisers well are familiar with those, whom they evaluate, then experience until a certain extent can replace an exceptional intelligence. In a whole, however, a good intelligence is needed, and the reason here utterly is simple. Understanding of people this is largely task uyasneniya ties between ??? and current the deeds, between expressive at all behavior and internal properties, between cause of and consequence of, and intelligence and there is ability to set this kind of ratio.

4. Deep understanding of themselves(Insight ). The right understanding of our own deviant trends, his of pretence and incoherence of, own complex motives usually deters us from too offering facile and ordinary judgments about the people. Blindness and the fallacy in understanding our own of nature will automatically transferred on our judgment about other. Compulsive neurosis or any other to herself, not learned us by the, necessarily will plans as projection or value judgment on our estimates other people. In practice a long was recognized the need preliminary of knowledge themselves. Above than man can unleash ganglia other people, he must untying its own.

5. The complexity of the(Los Angeles Complexity). Typically, people not can deeply understand those who harder and thinner their themselves. A plainspoken man mind not harbors responsiveness to unrest mind cultural and recognizing the the developed. Two souls sui in breast have Fausta, and only one have his aide Vanger; and precisely Faust proved able in late all suffer significance human life.

From this should, for example, that if psychiatrist possesses complex kind the, then can to capture from this certain advantages, because him must deal with exclusively complex mental .?????, and even if he has own neurotic difficulties, with whom he well mismanaged, it will be only raise his skill. This not means, that we not will abandon room for artists, that psychiatrist without shackled, whose role not so much in understanding patients, how many in cheering their. With of Operative perspective more often case better radiate health and good mood, than app sympathetic called enter in violations and complexity mental life patient.

6. Coldness(cause seemed). Experiments have shown, that those who well versed in other, less communicative. For them more characterized introversiya, than Extraversion and introversion, and best appraisers accented-have and with hard quantitative someone else's assessing. In average they not very highly place social values. Those who is engaged in a social values, lacks time on an impartial the study of other people. They experiencing sympathy, sorry, love or admiration and not can stripped from these emotional relations so, to to gain with an admirably open mind glance. Man same, which not tries to all time be stakeholder any something events, but remains in side and is witnessing their, nothing not omitting, most likely can do more valuable judgment. Often happens and so, that a good be backtracking this way people (for example, writer) while, almost entirely preferable participation in there are some events, but then goes of them and starts hindsight examine people and what happened with him indifferently.

7. Aesthetic propensity(Aesthetic Attitude survey). Often with a lesser sociability are linked aesthetic propensity. This the quality of is worth higher all rest, especially if we consider the most whiz-kids greatest connoisseurs people. Aesthetic mind always tries to penetrate in internally origins the object harmony, whether something so, trivial, as any ornament, or something so a significant, as human being. The uniqueness and composure structures here is that interested in aesthetic personality in all cases. Such warehouse mind is needed novellistu or second. Under high his development aesthetic warehouse mind can until a certain extent offset restrictions experience , intelligence , deep understanding of themselves , similarities and complexity. If same aesthetic warehouse mind combine with these qualities, then this extremely highly raises art estimates.

8. Social intelligence(Social Intelligence). This the quality of not is mandatory. Romanisty or artists often them not possess. With other hand, say have quite, should be such substantial uncanny ability , because his function more complex: He should quietly listen to and in the same time examine, spur the to candor with, but under this never seem like you're in shock, be say to friendly, but restrained, patient and simultaneously Pobuzhdayuschim, and under all this still and never remembers to show boredom. Such subtle equilibrium in behavior requires high-level development diverse qualities, pasturelands smoothness in relations with humans. For order to tactfully to speak and do, needs to forecast the most likely reaction another rights. So social intelligence stems with ability to express quick, almost automatic, judgment about the people. Together with those, social intelligence has attitude rather to behavior, than to operirovaniyu notions: His product social device, and not the depth of understanding of.

The author: Sergei Ivanovich Makshanov, Dr. psychological Sciences, professor, the governor group companies "Institute
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Let's go over it eight personality qualities, needed, to well deal in humans

Strange, but why something not included in this list "water" traits: Skill share the emotions, on in another skins -. Mostly the author relies on "air" quality rights.

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And I illusion you have done for point 6. Before been mulling, that, can, am mistaken. Indeed, on vital observations people independent from social values are and less zashorenymi from stereotypes.

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